Pronouns

In my composing career, I've embarked on a thrilling adventure of self-discovery, and I'm excited to share that the pronouns "She/They" are now my trusty companions on this journey. While my gender identity is a significant part of who I am, it's not the lead singer in the choir when I'm collaborating with music ensembles. In those moments, the music takes center stage, creating a powerful experience that unites singers and audiences alike.

Now, if someone accidentally uses a different pronoun, don't worry – I won't be offended! At home and in my local community, I still embrace the pronouns "he" and "him," which I have used for decades before my transition. My family and friends have been my rock, showering me with love and support for my transgender female identity. In return, I've made this small compromise as a token of my appreciation. Together, we're writing a beautiful harmony of love and understanding.

My transition is an ongoing adventure, and like any good journey, there's no strict itinerary to follow. I'm privileged to have the opportunity to embrace my past while moving forward, recognizing that every step has led me to where I am today.

If you're curious about my story and gender identity is part of our workshop or commission discussion, I'm an open book! Feel free to ask, and I'll happily share my experiences.

While this is my personal path, I recognize that many individuals who identify as transgender do not have the same privileges I do. For them, being misgendered, even by mistake, can be a deeply hurtful experience. So, let's all be mindful and respect each other's gender presentations, regardless of our own beliefs. If you're unsure about someone's pronouns, most transgender individuals appreciate being asked for clarity, preferably in private. And if you can't ask, remember that "they/them" has been a grammatically correct option for centuries!